A fair relationship often stands on our little + sweet memories. Why is that? Cause in a huge memory, many things can be happened at a time. Like as, in last year of Jane’s relationship, James first kissed her. They first went to watch a movie together. They passed a night talking & watching the deep dark sky. They first quarreled with each other. They hit each other. They went on a date.. God! So many things have been happened!!!!!Which one will James or Jane will remind when their relationship will go to an end just for nothing? If they try to catch a long distance of time, they will catch many things, and trust me, angry minds often find the worst memories. :-p pick up a small amount of time suppose your first kiss, can you remember how sweet / romantic that was? :-x J how much love was there? We cant be flooded in love in every moments of our life. Do you know why? Cause its impossible!! Nobody can. Even the playboy..!! Your love meter will never run in a single line. It can dive like the stock exchange J it’s the most natural thing to be happened in any kind of relationship. Any kind... True lies in everything. A relation meant a relation. It may between daughter-father, brother & sister, in between two friends, or in between couples!!! but there is a match in all relationship. That is all relationship requires trust, caring, understanding, belief.
Suppose, you have a quarrel with your boy friend, now will live a relation of 2 years just to have one quarrel in one bad moment? Again, a daughter became angry with her mom because her mom was trying to show an extra caring [like me]. Does She leave her? And so on and on….. Well, all answers are No. cause we don’t have a good fortune always. We may have a quarrel. With the persons of ur relation. Even in ur birthday, anniversary or any special day. All u need is don’t loose faith. Do you know what is going on his/her mind? S/he is may be in some kind of trouble, mental pressure. Just give him/her some time to recover. A relationship dies for extra care or even lack of care. A good average is the best idea. Average means 90-60-40-100-80-50….. //giving a space to breath doesn’t mean you are going leave him/her, it means you are going to hold with more pressure. It is called love. After all, a quarrel often [sometimes always] proves that we are still human; we didn’t become a robot or any creepy thing! :D :D :D :)
Sometimes you need to say sorry. No matter what happens, feel something with your heart. BUT do not try to feel anything. It will create a hole in your relation. In a relation, the two souls cant be hard on anything together. If one becomes hard, then another needs to be softer forgetting all EGOS. In Relation, Egos are like block stone though it seems like milestone. It doesn’t decrease the distance between any two souls rather it increases it in 2x/3x forms. Forget about your own Ego. A true love is really rare now-a-days. It’s too much hard to be found. Somebody find it & miss it for their imperfectness. Somebody are always looking but they never find it. There are only a few persons, who really know that he gets the true love & hold it at any means.
Perfection... Nobody is perfect. We must try to be perfect. Those who try get the perfection in one thing. But we can sit in a couch thinking that nobody is perfect, why should I try!!! At least try. It changes everything. The only differences between winners and losers are losers quit early, winners don’t quit. They kept trying & pushing hard.
A relationship often ends for our own ego, misunderstanding, misbehave, lack of caring, lack of trust, & play boy life.. if you want a classical relationship, you need to be on an average of these things. Most of the time, distrust ends everything. Why u don’t want to trust someone who will put some good/great/normal memory in your life?? Can we tolerate it if same thing happens for us? Most of us won’t. Nobody likes to be distrusted.. It hits in the heart directly..
What will happen if you use your emotion in over rate? [Love, hate… all are emotions]. After years, when you need your true love to come out, it won’t come out. Cause you never used that quality. It will rest in peace. The inner potential dies in vein for lack of use or misuse. You always showed extra emotion everywhere. You are thing that nobody will understand but unfortunately you are quite wrong. Everybody can understand that & they will reply with that type. And after having a good practice in your 25 years of life, when you are trying to find you lover/ you need to show your love, you are unable to find it. Actually its over. It’s dead by then. If you don’t believe me, then try not to do something which you often do for one month. After that period you will find that you are unable to do that. You are shy to do that. It’s not perfect actually it’s the worst. And things are over! So if you have something, that doesn’t mean that, you have to use that everywhere, every time.
A gap in a relationship without any good reason will create nothing but a good black hole. Because in the gap, you changed yourself and the person is also changed himself. & you won’t/can’t cope with each other’s changed habits. But if you stay together, you won’t get the changing. Honestly … its like, a MOM often forgot that her child grows up. After many years suddenly she will find that her lilt child is now 5 years old school kid :) :)
If you don’t get this today, you will get this tomorrow. But you will believe this.
**ALL of those are true for any relationship. NOT JUST FOR LOVERS**
** These are true for all classic relationship. Not for playboy type minds**
[][] Believe me or not, Life is your purity. [][]
[][] Believe me or not, Life is your purity. [][]
